Secret to Feeling Sexy: It's all in the mind- Meghan Daum
This is my first journal entry, it is mostly for my benefit, but I thought maybe others will find beneficial too. And maybe this could be the start for something beautiful.
I had a weird epiphany yesterday. I was looking through my sisters USB to find something, but I found kim kardashian old pictures, before she started looking weird. and I thought she looked stunning. I went to sleep
woke up and asked my self, 'do i need to change my eye color to feel attractive and appealing right now?' kim doesn't have blue eyes yet she is seen as sexy ( I'm talking way back 2007)
It was hard for me to accept that I can look beautiful right now, RIGHT NOW! I don't need anything to be sexy as hell.
That is what I wrestle with alot, I have days where I just feel sexy and I dont mean I have my make up done perfectly, and I have my outfit all together. I mean FEEL I am great, flaw and all, I just feel sexy, and I don't feel like I wanna hide anything "imperfect" about me.
The day I feel this way when I walk into anyplace I demand attention even though I don't seek it. I look at people with the thought "how interesting?" with curiosity, instead of the thought "am I interesting enough?"
I remember one particular instance which always brings a smile to my face. I was for that week feeling sexy and confident, I went to the supermarket with not a hint of makeup on my face. What surprised me though was how much attention I was getting, every step I take people would turn around and look at me.
At one point I was searching through the frozen food section, a guy came up to me asking if I was single and whether I would like to go out with him because I looked gorgeous. I have to say I was surprised, because before, that would not happen in this context, so it was really refreshing and fun, still to this day I get a smile on my face remembering this! and I didn't even have heels on!
Here is what I learned so far if you want the eye color you want:
That is how I saw result with visualization, when I started seeing the eye color in my mind, without so much attachment to it, the result will be better. Because you don't have blocks so your subconscious can take it in and whatever massage the subconscious gets it will make it come true.
I am still learning about the power of your mind, the more I learn the more I am humbled by its power.
I will put up an exercise routine that helps me out, I will post it up next time, so it can help us both :)
I had a weird epiphany yesterday. I was looking through my sisters USB to find something, but I found kim kardashian old pictures, before she started looking weird. and I thought she looked stunning. I went to sleep
woke up and asked my self, 'do i need to change my eye color to feel attractive and appealing right now?' kim doesn't have blue eyes yet she is seen as sexy ( I'm talking way back 2007)
It was hard for me to accept that I can look beautiful right now, RIGHT NOW! I don't need anything to be sexy as hell.
That is what I wrestle with alot, I have days where I just feel sexy and I dont mean I have my make up done perfectly, and I have my outfit all together. I mean FEEL I am great, flaw and all, I just feel sexy, and I don't feel like I wanna hide anything "imperfect" about me.
The day I feel this way when I walk into anyplace I demand attention even though I don't seek it. I look at people with the thought "how interesting?" with curiosity, instead of the thought "am I interesting enough?"
I remember one particular instance which always brings a smile to my face. I was for that week feeling sexy and confident, I went to the supermarket with not a hint of makeup on my face. What surprised me though was how much attention I was getting, every step I take people would turn around and look at me.
At one point I was searching through the frozen food section, a guy came up to me asking if I was single and whether I would like to go out with him because I looked gorgeous. I have to say I was surprised, because before, that would not happen in this context, so it was really refreshing and fun, still to this day I get a smile on my face remembering this! and I didn't even have heels on!
Here is what I learned so far if you want the eye color you want:
- The more I visualize the eye color I want, and how it makes me FEEL to have it ( that I now deserve to be sexy, beautiful, that I should walk confidently showing all my beauty because I feel stunning), the more I think I do it out of desperation than expected faith, and when I do that its because I think I am MISSING something important to make me look sexy. ( are you doing it cuz your missing something?)
- I think the secret to getting the eye color you want, you have to know for what reason do you want it. I have to always keep that in mind, and you should too, do you want to change your eye color because you don't feel your 'good enough' already? to you, is it the missing link for your "hotness" if it is, then this will burst your bubble( it did for me too) it wont make you as hot as you think it will. whatever you need to be hot you have it now. you just need to own it.
That is how I saw result with visualization, when I started seeing the eye color in my mind, without so much attachment to it, the result will be better. Because you don't have blocks so your subconscious can take it in and whatever massage the subconscious gets it will make it come true.
I am still learning about the power of your mind, the more I learn the more I am humbled by its power.
I will put up an exercise routine that helps me out, I will post it up next time, so it can help us both :)